Today is a bitter-sweet day at our house.
Today I am saying goodbye to a faithful friend, one who has really lended me support over the past few years, one on whom Ellie has depended on many occasions.
I am, of course, talking about my Ergo baby carrier.
That’s right, after four solid years of use, Ellie has out-grown her Ergo. I couldn’t have asked for a better carrier. My only regret is that I didn’t get it when the girls were first born, because it would have really made those first few months a lot easier. As it is, the Ergo enabled me to do things that would have been impossible without it, like hiking, going to the fair, and eating with both hands when Ellie was sick and refused to be put down. I love my Ergo.
All good things must come to an end, however, and it is time to pack up my old friend and send it off to someone else, who I can only hope will appreciate it as much as I did. While still technically under the weight limit, Ellie is simply too big to fit comfortably in the Ergo now, and it has been getting progressively less comfortable for me to wear her on my back over the past six months. So farewell, old friend. You will always be remembered as the single most useful baby item I ever owned.
“But wait,” you say, “You said today was bitter-sweet. Where is the sweet part?”
Well, my friends, let me introduce you to the newest addition to our household…..
New to the relatively small market of toddler carriers, the Beco is all that I could wish for in a carrier. Besides the considerable size difference between my baby Ergo, I am loving the way it is constructed. The waist clip is adjustable from both sides, so it can be clipped right in the middle, which I find a lot more comfortable. The shoulder straps are SO much cushier than the Ergo, and they are really easy to adjust. I’m no longer getting strangled by the chest clip, either, which is a very nice change. I can even wear her on my front, something I haven’t been able to do for a really long time in the Ergo. There is a little pocket on the waist band, a snap-on zippered pouch, and an adjustable snap-on hood. It also comes with a super cute little carrying bag, so there will be no more flailing straps in the back of my car.
Where can you get this wonder? Well, I snagged one from Lil Tulips, and it only took three days to get to my house. You can’t beat that for service! Now, I know they are pricey at $200, but I really think they are worth the money. I am notoriously cheap, but I know that I am going to use this carrier for at least two more years, and some things are just worth investing in.
Especially when you have a child who has special needs. Because while a toddler carrier may be a convenience item for most families, it is pretty much a necessity for us. Ellie simply can’t walk for long on her own, and hiking is pretty much out of the question. Add in her dislike for holding our hands and complete lack of stranger danger, and a carrier is a must. I was really worried about what we were going to do when I realized that Ellie was going to outgrow her Ergo before she could walk really well. Thank goodness for the all of the babywearing mamas out there who have spurred the carrier companies to create carriers for bigger kids!
So while we are sad to say goodbye to our friend, the Ergo, Ellie and I are very excited to start our Beco journey… one step at a time.